Slut-shaming is something that most people experience at some point in their lives. Katie and Ashley share their tales of slut shaming, from the same boyfriend, and Emily shares her origin story and her vision for the future of The UnSlut Project. The UnSlut Project is a collaborative effort to reach out to girls who [...]
Ophilia and Miko went and enjoyed the Swingset Takes Desire 2014. The best part of their vacation… so many sexy kinky geeks! The Desire trip seemed to bring together geeks, swingers and kinksters all in one place in paradise. These Kinky Geeks found so much they loved from the Wild West night makeover to steampunk, [...]
Aida Manduley, sex educator and author of “When the Professional Is Personal: Calling Out the Whitewashing of the Sexuality Field” and “The Ferguson Masterpost: How To Argue Eloquently & Back Yourself Up With Facts” joins Ashley and Katie for a discussion on social justice. Aida also shares her history in LGBTQ activism and how she [...]
From the opening fantasy sequence where Will uses his ravenstag to kill Hannibal/Wendigo, through the expansion of the Margot Verger subplot, to the most raw KOW (killer of the week) in Randall Tier, the beast, the mechanical cave bear, we adore this episode. Even if it does have one of the most unusual and abrupt [...]
Have you ever wondered what happens at sex parties? How they work? Who organizes them? What the rules entail? Polly Superstar shares all of her sexy secrets of her creation, the world-renowned Kinky Salon. Katie and Ashley geek out with Polly about vulnerability and community building (a la Brené Brown) and learn all about the [...]
A treat of an episode filled with guest stars Katherine Isabelle, Jeremy Davies, and Chris Diamantopoulos. We spend the first ten minutes discussing the character of Margot Verger and the differences between the books, movies, and this series, and Bryan Fuller’s versions of a character that was a bit of a stereotype in Thomas Harris’ [...]
Poor Frederick Chilton. After Will gets released and a severely damaged Miriam Lass returns to the FBI, Hannibal figures now is the time to pull the trigger on his “fall guy,” setting up Chilton. All on this episode of Eat The Rudecast, an unauthorized podcast about NBC’s Hannibal, and the works of Thomas Harris.
Four heads in one episode leads to a group blowjob of epic proportions! While Katie was freezing in the late-November snow, Ashley traveled to Oakland to visit sex educator and coach Alex Morgan. The three share their tips for giving great blowjobs to both factory-installed and strap-on cocks. Like Batman to the Bat Signal, sex [...]
A hell of an episode advances all the plotlines while taking a significant turn to the beautiful surreal of experimental films. We discuss the validity of the Hannibal/Alana storyline, the reality of the cages in the BSHCI, and the beauty of the food at Hannibal’s dinner party. All on this episode of Eat The Rudecast, [...]
We return from weeks of illness and vacation and illness again to a really cracking puzzle box of an episode that unfolds and unfolds with more plot points than we can even be prepared for. We bid a farewell to Beverly Katz as she has been deconstructed by Hannibal. Cooper feels that this is the [...]
Talking about sex with prospective partners is vital. Conversations about STI status, barrier requirements, and boundaries are essential pre-sex talking points—not to mention telling your partner what you actually enjoy! Katie and Ashley explore these conversations as well as messages they received growing up in sex-negative households. Ashley shares how early childhood trauma impacted her [...]
The Kinky Geeks discuss how kink IRL (“in real life” to the non-geeky) can often have painful consequences. Whether it’s being outed and doxed, being fired for personal details found online, slut shaming, or the Dr. McJudgersons we meet when showing up for appointments with bruises or asking for testing. We believe that what goes [...]
Have you ever felt like an impostor? Have you ever had the phrase “why would anyone ever listen to me?” go through your mind? You’re not alone. Katie and Ashley, along with special guest Crista Anne, explore the “impostor syndrome” phenomenon and trace its manifestations through career, personal life, and parenting.
Ashley and Katie are joined by Crista Anne, foundress of Dildology and self professed body hair enthusiast. Together they explore why even in no shave November feminine body hair is stigmatized and how we can push back against societal norms. We stand together in hirsute solidarity!
We marvel at the dichotomy that a very strong episode with a slammin’ finale could have so many clunky scenes. Beverly behaving as a greatly dumbed down version of herself is a red flag. We all fawn over the naivety of Chilton and I put forth that Hannibal doing a Punch and Judy style hand-puppet [...]
Well, we’re back and definitely doing much better than ever. The Kinky Geeks return after a lengthy hiatus. Let’s just say life got in the way but we’ve made it through the worst of it. We’ve decided to fire up the engines and start off with an episode about gender and identity. Ophilia is asked [...]
Katie and Ashley record their first “in bed” episode and dish about a wedding they attended together. Ashley explains why wedding receptions make her feel like hooking up and shares an embarrassing story.
As Season 2 of Hannibal moves into the courtroom drama phase, the girls both really like what’s being offered up, while Cooper grumps about the show not feeling enough like itself. We talk of the gory murders, guest star defense attorney, the return of Dr Chilton and Freddie Lounds, and more gloriously gory tableaus. All [...]
We revel in a Killer of the Week (2 weeks) that we actually enjoy. After a tremendous bit of gore and intensity in the open, Episode 2 of Season 2 has dramatically upped the game, stripping away every bit of fat and introducing a lean story on all fronts. This episode is also an outstanding [...]
Join Ashley, Katie, and special guest Alex S. Morgan as we unpack the ethical implications of hands on sex education, sexological bodywork, and in person sex coaching. We also geek out about our experiences at CatalystCon, the joys of fisting, and other random awesome things
It’s a new season, and we start it with an ultimate throw down between Jack Crawford and Hannibal Lecter. The killer of the week is extended and creepy, Will is behind bars, and there’s lots of wonderful and horrible all around. We are joined by Kate Kulzick, from our favorite Hannibal Podcast This is Our [...]
We discuss a listener’s thoughts on Will’s hallucination during his time at the cabin with Abigail in S01E12, then dovetail into a greater discussion of the season as a whole before we take our time deconstructing the use of unreliable narrators, the beauty and the horror of the finale for Season 1 of Hannibal. Miko [...]
We praise the acting in this episode where the wheels come off, Will takes Abigail back to the cabin, and Hannibal begins to throw absolutely everyone and anyone under the bus as possibly being the copycat.
You never know what will happen when you take Ashley and Katie, a bottle of Malbec, and two sex positive rockstars like Carol Queen and Robert Morgan Lawrence. Carnalcopia records and interviews live from CatalystCon West and discusses sluttus interruptus, flaccid fun, which Game of Thrones character is Robert’s type, and much more!