Prof and Ginger experiment with the nuance of their Dominant/submissive dynamic. Within a solid, long-term, equitable relationship, Prof and Ginger demonstrate that Dominance and submission have a functional effect on keeping a relationship fun and stimulating. As more of the culture is exposed to Fifty Shades of Grey, realistic expression of kink dynamics are informative and necessary to balance the superficial representations of BDSM that have become ubiquitous.
See kink in the mainstream in the New York Times: http://www.nytimes.com/2016/02/24/arts/music/a-composer-and-his-wife-creativity-through-kink.html?_r=0 Rock on, @mollena!
Interested in traveling to Desire with Ginger and Prof in April 2016? Email Ginger For details at ginger@lifeontheswingset.com.
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Connect with Ginger and Prof on Twitter @gingerntheprof @intelforeplay. Also follow @ontheswingset and @swingsetFM for all the Swingsetty goodness!
The co-host of the Body Poscast, Lillian Bustle and the small but might Tiny D, joined Lola on stage at Otto’s Shrunken Head in New York City on February 4th for Sex Ed. A Go-Go’s first live show of 2016!
After a short winter hiatus Sex Ed A Go-go returned to its home stage on the lower east side ready to pump up the crowd and get back into the sexy swing of things. With two newly minted members of the Double P at her side Lola was ready to go!
On this episode of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola and the crew chat about traveling for orgies, a plan for your Plan B, magical unicorn dating site dreams, body love and acceptance, flavored condoms and where you can stick’em, things that get lost in your bra, chub rub remedies and why Bandelettes are a gift from the goddess.
You can find Lillian Bustle on Twitter, @LillianBustle, and the Body Poscast on iTunes.
You find Tiny D on Twitter as @TinyDBurlesque
Prof and Ginger are completely smitten. This is the genesis story of a fresh, new polyamorous triad. Listen to the classy kiss and tell of how Eli, Prof, and Ginger start to fall for each other. Discussions of communication, synchronicities, and the rarity of connecting with a vanilla unicorn in the wild are here for your entertainment. The honesty between GIn and Prof is tangible as they examine how this new relationship affects the relationship they have together.
Read Esther Perel’s Mating in Captivity. We have! http://www.estherperel.com/book/mating-in-captivity/translations/us-edition/
Read Tristan Taormino’s Opening Up. We have! And you must. http://www.puckerup.com/cgi/commerce.cgi?preadd=action&key=B59-OU
Interested in traveling to Desire with Ginger and Prof in April 2016? Email Ginger for details at ginger@lifeontheswingset.com.
Review Intellectual Foreplay on iTunes!
Connect with Ginger and Prof on Twitter @gingerntheprof @intelforeplay. Also follow @ontheswingset and @swingsetFM for all the Swingsetty goodness!
Episode 8 is a particularly intimate discussion talking desire in the bath. It’s like you are right there with them as they enjoy their coffee post a Sunday morning tryst. Explore how desire affects how you relate and ask for what you want. Hear about ebbs and flows in who wants what sex when. And learn strategies for how to navigate finding everyone’s way to satisfaction.
Read Emily Nagoski’s book Come as You Are. We are! http://www.emilynagoski.com/books/
How about some delicious sexy visuals to pique your desire? Follow our Tumblr: gingerntheprof.tumblr.com
Interested in traveling to Desire with Ginger and Prof in April 2016? Email Ginger for details at ginger@lifeontheswingset.com.
Review Intellectual Foreplay on iTunes!
Connect with Ginger and Prof on Twitter @gingerntheprof @intelforeplay. Also follow @ontheswingset and @swingsetFM for all the Swingsetty goodness!
Happy Podcastaversary! Tell Me Something Good has been coming to you for a full year, and it's been a live monthly event in Toronto for 2 years. Despite a major hiccup (stroke, actually) and a few months of intermittent episodes, we're so proud of this year's output. We celebrate our anniversary and move along to an interview with Strap-On Jo.
Strap-On Jo is an anal sex educator who tells a story of paying a sex worker as someone with sex work experience. After that, we discuss the ins and outs (pun very much intended) of pegging and anal play, which is very much Strap-On Jo's forte. By the end of this interview, you'll be curious.
Hello Perverts! We discuss online dating while femme with Flick, Kat, and Lola. We also fielded a light bulb filled response to our episode on Trigger Warnings from Nobilis Reed.
Online Dating While Femme
We discuss why men behave badly while trying to date women, including name calling, shaming, negging, as we try to figure out... what the hell is the expected return on messages like that? Are men just trying to keep women in line for the next man? Why can't men take rejection gracefully? What do you do with "nice guys" when they just don't know any better, can they be socialized into changing? While we briefly consider that public shaming can sometimes be a powerful tool we approach online discussions and how men can back women up when discussions start to go wrong.
You can find WetCoastCat at www.lifeontheswingset.com/author/kat/ and on twitter @wetcoastkat. You can find Flick on twitter @seriousFLICK. You can find DirtyLola and her podcast, Sex Ed A. Go Go at www.sexedagogo.com and find her on twitter @DirtyLola.
Trigger Warnings and Spoilers
Nobilis Reed and D Dog discuss trigger warnings after making a connection between the the function of trigger warnings and the effort to limit movie spoilers.
Nobilis Reed is the creator and host of the best speculative fiction erotica podcast in the known universe. He's also an author, anthology editor, and self-avowed social justice cleric. His podcast can be found at nobilis.libsyn.com and you can find him on twitter @nobilis.
All this was recorded at the Gentleperverts’ Social Club. You can find more Gentleperverts’ Social Club podcasts every month at www.gentleperverts.com and discuss our latest episodes and topics on twitter with @GentlePerverts and me @DylanTheThomas. You can find me, Dylan Thomas, on Facebook, Spotify and Fetlife as DylanTheThomas. If you have a submission, a story, a signal boost request, or an idea for a topic send that over to me at dylan@lifeontheswingset.com. If you like having this podcast, throw me a buck or two per episode at tip.gentleperverts.com.