Ginger and Ryan dig deep into their own relationship, as well as their current and past poly relationships and explore what's worked for them and where they've fallen short. They call this process 'holding up the mirror' for each other to reflect back to each other the real thoughts and emotions they've experienced in their own relationship, as well as with their poly partners. Ginger courageously owns her own past mistakes around "re-entry" from when Ryan had sexual experiences that didn't include her.