Adult film star and filmmaker jessica drake has seen the porn industry through some of its most radical and affecting changes, and has moved herself from star to writer to educator with her jessica drake's Guide to Wicked Sex Series. Tonight she's joining us to discuss this evolution of an industry. We chat about how the industry deals with the double edged sword of the Internet, the difference between porn as entertainment and porn as education, cyber bullying, and we giggled about sitting on the floor crosslegged.
This week we first chat for a while about how it seems to be the season of exes right now and share a few embarrassing and emotional tales from our past. Because what’s a little podcasting conversation without some trips down memory lane? Then it’s time to sit down with our Swingset.FM sister, Miko Technogeisha [...]
Usually, when we talk about consent, we’re talking about sex, and most of us have heard the phrase “Consent is Sexy” thrown around before. While consent most certainly can be sexy, Katie and Ashley think there’s more to it than that. This week they’re taking a deeper look at consent and the many different ways [...]
Cooper posits the concern mitigation of designating a time and place a safe zone from judgement, and thus allowing yourself freedom to make mistakes. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper S. Beckett. Buy the ebook, paperback, or uncut and [...]
We shake things up this episode, getting our least favorite storylines out of the way right off. (Hint, they involve Donna, James, and The Bobber.) This is a superb episode top to bottom though, thanks to director Lesli Linka Glatter and writer Mark Frost. At this late point in the abbreviated first season, it really [...]
Show favorite, Francisco Ramirez returns to the Pussy Posse this time with Kristen Lee at his side. Lola and the gang talk about fapping, anal prep AKA cleaning the cat, house boy applications and keeping it real, because that’s the only way to keep it. This show originally aired 9/25/2014 and took place at The Parkside Lounge! We are building [...]
Way back in 2011 Life on the Swingset issued a pleasure quest. Find a quality ejaculating dildo. Over the years, we did NOT find quality dildos, we DID find Miko, though, so it was a win over all. Tonight we have Steph Berman with us, creator of The Semenette, the best ejaculating dildo I've ever seen, to talk with us about simulacrum genitals.
We spoke at length about the original mission of The Semenette, to provide a way for partners to conceive and still connect in a sexy and fun way, and opened up to possibilities of users and partners playing in safe and non procreative ways; pegging, cum play, new ways for those with erectile dysfunction to still experience the pleasure of ejaculating on and in someone... it's a very versatile dildo.
Before we get to our guest’s storytelling portion of the episode we wax poetic for a while about our sex lives, including our thoughts on “maintenance sex” and how we both feel a little lonely with our partners being away, though Sophie is definitely suffering a little more than Samantha. Then it’s time to get [...]
May is International Masturbation Month, and Katie and Ashley are celebrating! They discuss how they like to masturbate, what masturbation means to them, as well as personal their histories of shame and masturbatory triumph.
Cooper takes you through how to hide a sex swing. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper S. Beckett. Buy the ebook, paperback, or uncut and commercial free audiobook at MyLifeOnTheSwingset.com
Writer Robert Engles and director Tim Hunter impress the hell out of us with a dynamic and engaging episode that manages to showcase all the wonderful things about Twin Peaks while sidelining most of the obnoxious elements. That said, this episode does feature the disturbing domino oral fixation and Shelley Johnson trying to sexily rub [...]
Tonight, the social club hosts a discussion on consensual objectification vs. tokenization, a story that left the storyteller wondering, “Is he going to kill me, and is he at least going to get me off first?”, an intimate hot-tub side chat about NRE, Passion, and love for our existing partners and how they aren’t mutually [...]
We're back with more Swinging basics in our Swinging for Dummies series! Full Swap and Soft Swap are the two main classifications of swinging, with full swap including traditional PIV/PIA ( penis in vagina/penis in anus ) sex and soft swap not. Tonight on Life on the Swingset the podcast, we're going to be talking about the decision making that can lead you from one classification to another, as well as the benefits and drawbacks of both. But, you know, sexy like.
Also… Take a listen to The Drifters – Save the Last Dance For Me!
This episode features the fantastic Kitty Stryker, who we sat down with recently when she was in town during the week of the Feminist Porn Awards. You’ve probably heard about Kitty’s recent boycott of the awards, but if you haven’t, her article on Eros: Earnest Feminism Is All We Have: What I Learned From Boycotting [...]
We’ve all got fantasies about different things and for different reasons, whether to play out something that isn’t happening in real life, test the waters of things you’d like to try, or to take your sex (with yourself or anyone else!) to new heights. This week, find out what Katie and Ashley fantasize about, what [...]
It’s Laura Palmer’s funeral, and of course Leland has to ruin this too! Not, of course, before Snake and The Bobber throw down against Broody McBroodsalot. We discuss in this episode how there is a lot of crap in Twin Peaks, but what makes the show great is its ability to put truly transcendent material [...]
The Birthday Show!!! This was the birthday to end all birthdays. The Pussy Posse ( Francisco Ramirez and Sweet Lorraine ) and Lola discuss puppy play, lube and the merits of spit. Sexy crazy fun!! This show originally aired 7/24/2014 and took place at The Parkside Lounge! We are building up to the release of [...]
We hit the jackpot when it comes to voicemail questions in this episode. In fact, our voicemailbag runneth over. The Swingset crew gathers around to listen to your questions this time around. The crew tackle questions about humans being suited for monogamy, use of alcohol in the lifestyle, defense of the no kissing rule in the lifestyle, even the use of the term "the lifestyle." There's also a special treat for you, Swingsetters. Enjoy the song "Sock Puppet" by the band Sticky Biscuits. An awesome song about fisting.
Keeping calling in with those voicemail questions. We'd love to do more Gang Bang The VoicemailBag episodes.
This episode features the inspiring Lillith Grey, who we sat down with recently at CatalystCon in Arlington, VA. We chatted with Lillith about many things, but in particular she shared the inspiring story of how she got involved in deaf ed and sex ed. As an educator, activist, and artist, most of Lillith’s time is divided between [...]
This episode features none other than founder of the Toronto sex shop, Good For Her, Carlyle Jansen. She joined us in studio to share her experiences growing up in a conservative household and what that meant for her sexual journey. In addition to being the owner of Good For Her, Carlyle is also the producer [...]
Rachel Kramer Bussel joins Dirty Lola and the Pussy Posse including Foxy Squire for a discussion about pegging, the 99 cent store kink, fellatio by candlelight, and trying desperately to figure out how to receive pie while giving head. Our raffle was sponsored by SHAG brooklyn!!! This episode originally aired 6/26/14 and took place at The [...]